Be sincere and trust only to those who earn it from you bit by bit, or else you will be hurt badly. To keep every single feeling to yourself because you know it's good for the own good of both of you guys, is the most painful process you need to go through in your life. Time is the only thing that you need to deal with.
To see someone start to slip away from your life and you basically can't do anything, is the worse part. Because you know it's the best for both of you guys. If you love someone truthfully, you rather you get yourself hurt than the both of you suffer together.
Love is almighty, love is about forgive and forget. But as a human, sometimes it is just very difficult for us to do so.
Friday, November 19, 2010
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Human love to question God. Why YOU put me is such a difficult situation? Why YOU allow such shit to hurt me? Why am i less fortunate than other? Why cant YOU just make my life a little better?
Question will go on and on and it will be never ending. Well, have you ever thought that God put you through in this kind of harsh situation to make you learn to be a better person? Human will learn when it hurts. Regrets always come in the end ; no pain, no gain. There is no need to elaborate more, you guys should understand.
So if shit happen in your life next time, take it as a lesson to be learnt. You may complain but not so much, start to look thing at a different angle and eventually you will learn something from it.
After the rain, there would be rainbow !!!
Oh well, what is LOVE? Girls always like to ask their boyfriend, "Do you love me MORE today?", In the first place, can you measure love? If you do, let me know how to do it.. How are you suppose to know you love someone more today? If you do, it is called affection, not love.
Love is just love, nothing more. Love is simple yet it is too complicated to be understand, it's like beyond the complexity of formula or calculation. So if you do love somebody, just tell him/her "iloveyou" and that's enough. Simple yet it contain significant meaning.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Purpose of life
It's been a long time since I actually sat down at starbucks using laptop, like how i used to be.
And I sat down here, thinking: What is life? Human love to complain about their life, who doesn't do so anyway? Sometimes we try to figure out what is the purpose for being alive? Being alive to live because of others? Or do we live for ourselves? We love to doubt our own capabilities just because we know that there is someone out there who is better than us in terms of everything.
We start to find all sort of reasons and excuses for ourself, just because we don't want to face the probelm. We love tp live in denial. Think, there are millions of peope in the world out there which is not as fortunate as us, we can walk, run and do anything we like. Some people out there may even have the difficulty just to have a meal. The reason for us to live in denial is because we are broken inside before we even start to battle with all the problems.
Tune up the mentaility, get it in the correct frequency, and think about people who care about you as your motivation. There is no point for being complete outside while you are broken inside.
Enough of all the life philosphy.... Time to think about what I wanna out of my life as well~
It's been a long time since I actually sat down at starbucks using laptop, like how i used to be.
And I sat down here, thinking: What is life? Human love to complain about their life, who doesn't do so anyway? Sometimes we try to figure out what is the purpose for being alive? Being alive to live because of others? Or do we live for ourselves? We love to doubt our own capabilities just because we know that there is someone out there who is better than us in terms of everything.
We start to find all sort of reasons and excuses for ourself, just because we don't want to face the probelm. We love tp live in denial. Think, there are millions of peope in the world out there which is not as fortunate as us, we can walk, run and do anything we like. Some people out there may even have the difficulty just to have a meal. The reason for us to live in denial is because we are broken inside before we even start to battle with all the problems.
Tune up the mentaility, get it in the correct frequency, and think about people who care about you as your motivation. There is no point for being complete outside while you are broken inside.
Enough of all the life philosphy.... Time to think about what I wanna out of my life as well~
Friday, October 8, 2010
Memories: Good or bad ; all for you defination
Everyone has memories, either bad or good ones. Good memories bring you joy and happiness and bad memories are bound to make you feel sad. But, it aint 100 percent true, bad memories arent that bad in compared to those sweet memories.
It is pretty much depend on how you look at it. Sometime you need to use different angle to look at life, and you will realise life arent that bad at all. Let's just use a different angle to look at those bad memories, surely you gain or learn something from it, besides sadness and sorrows. Memories are the past moment that you had in your life, what you need to do is look forward, not backward.
There is not such terms like "Those memories start to hunt me down", how is it suppose to hunt you down while those memories are the past?
What you need to worry is the future not the past, because as a human we can’t override time.
“Life seems like a straight road with an ending point with and dead end and sometime seems like it is the end of everything, but who know there will be a corner somewhere around the end?, so try to look thing at different angle.
Everyone has memories, either bad or good ones. Good memories bring you joy and happiness and bad memories are bound to make you feel sad. But, it aint 100 percent true, bad memories arent that bad in compared to those sweet memories.
It is pretty much depend on how you look at it. Sometime you need to use different angle to look at life, and you will realise life arent that bad at all. Let's just use a different angle to look at those bad memories, surely you gain or learn something from it, besides sadness and sorrows. Memories are the past moment that you had in your life, what you need to do is look forward, not backward.
There is not such terms like "Those memories start to hunt me down", how is it suppose to hunt you down while those memories are the past?
What you need to worry is the future not the past, because as a human we can’t override time.
“Life seems like a straight road with an ending point with and dead end and sometime seems like it is the end of everything, but who know there will be a corner somewhere around the end?, so try to look thing at different angle.
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
FATE ; memories ; UNIQUE
Coincidence or delibrately? Whatever you name it. At the very least, we are on our own roads, our own paths. Once a stranger, Once a friend, Once a colleague, Once a lover ; and back to stranger all over.
Sometimes in life we might bump to someone we really love but the problem is that not every couple who loved each other will last for eternity. We might still feel the same towards he/she but it is just different, perhaps we feel for the past but not for the present. It's nice to bump on someone like that, it bring back memories but we should understand that deep down in us we already moved on, it's just pieces of puzzle now. Memories is just so oh, unique.
We still feel towards he/she but we already move on in life.
Coincidence or delibrately? Whatever you name it. At the very least, we are on our own roads, our own paths. Once a stranger, Once a friend, Once a colleague, Once a lover ; and back to stranger all over.
Sometimes in life we might bump to someone we really love but the problem is that not every couple who loved each other will last for eternity. We might still feel the same towards he/she but it is just different, perhaps we feel for the past but not for the present. It's nice to bump on someone like that, it bring back memories but we should understand that deep down in us we already moved on, it's just pieces of puzzle now. Memories is just so oh, unique.
We still feel towards he/she but we already move on in life.
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Last Day
What would you do, if today was your last day? And you'll never ever see your love ones again, never to give them a hug. Would you tell them that you love them? After seeing what happened, he was strong.
Human always take things for granted. When you have the one you love or your family with you, you wont even bother to give them a glance or tell them 'iloveu'. And only to weep when they left you. So, moral is: let your loved ones know how much you love them before you ever regret.
*Life is unpredictable*
What would you do, if today was your last day? And you'll never ever see your love ones again, never to give them a hug. Would you tell them that you love them? After seeing what happened, he was strong.
Human always take things for granted. When you have the one you love or your family with you, you wont even bother to give them a glance or tell them 'iloveu'. And only to weep when they left you. So, moral is: let your loved ones know how much you love them before you ever regret.
*Life is unpredictable*
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Regrets.
Have you guys ever lost somebody that you care, adore, and love so much?
You lose someone you adore so much because you neglected them. Human like to take things for granted, perhaps you did not realise that you are already neglecting them because you have already taken things for granted. You think that they are fine because they did not make any noise. Well, on the other way round, maybe, they are already given up, and just waiting for the right moment to 'snap' off.
Dont let regret haunt you down, else you will learn your lesson whereby saying 'sorry' is not enough anymore.
You lose someone you adore so much because you neglected them. Human like to take things for granted, perhaps you did not realise that you are already neglecting them because you have already taken things for granted. You think that they are fine because they did not make any noise. Well, on the other way round, maybe, they are already given up, and just waiting for the right moment to 'snap' off.
Dont let regret haunt you down, else you will learn your lesson whereby saying 'sorry' is not enough anymore.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Monday, July 12, 2010
When I woke up this morning I asked myself: What are some of the secrets of success in life? I found the answer right there in my very room. The Fan said - Be cool. The Roof said - Aim high. The Window said - See the world. The Clock said - Every minute is precious. The Mirror said - Reflect before you act. The Door said - Push hard for your goals. And don't forget, the Carpet said - Kneel down & pray
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
And here I am, sitting alone. Dazing. Thinking.
A feeling that is hard to be described. My grandfather passed away today as of 2.30pm. We rushed down at 3pm. All we see is his body, weak & thin body. Did he leave us in peace? Or did he suffer? I remained silence through the whole process. After the doctor arrived, we went to police post to endorse the death cert. I didnt shed a single tear from Amk all the way to Singapore Casket. Even the last time that I saw him today after his make up, I didnt shed a tear, even though I wanted to so much. It's the 5th generation. We should not shed any tear. I tried my best, to put on a strong font.
It's painful. But hope that you may find your peace in heaven.
Dear Late Grandfather,
I will always remember how you would make the effort to buy durian for all your grandchildren to eat because you knew that it was always our favourite. But that fateful day after buying us the durian, your body falls on you and get stroke ever since. We understand how much you loved all of us and knew that you would bless all of us. Here, I wished to tell you that all of us, loved you so much.
From,
Your Granddaughter (Sandy)
A feeling that is hard to be described. My grandfather passed away today as of 2.30pm. We rushed down at 3pm. All we see is his body, weak & thin body. Did he leave us in peace? Or did he suffer? I remained silence through the whole process. After the doctor arrived, we went to police post to endorse the death cert. I didnt shed a single tear from Amk all the way to Singapore Casket. Even the last time that I saw him today after his make up, I didnt shed a tear, even though I wanted to so much. It's the 5th generation. We should not shed any tear. I tried my best, to put on a strong font.
It's painful. But hope that you may find your peace in heaven.
Dear Late Grandfather,
I will always remember how you would make the effort to buy durian for all your grandchildren to eat because you knew that it was always our favourite. But that fateful day after buying us the durian, your body falls on you and get stroke ever since. We understand how much you loved all of us and knew that you would bless all of us. Here, I wished to tell you that all of us, loved you so much.
From,
Your Granddaughter (Sandy)
Monday, March 1, 2010
A sms, can show how a person feels to you. A copy and paste sms, a forwarded sms, simply just show that how much he do not bother about me. And the same sequence, the same sms to be sent to me, as though he is doing it in a sense of revenge. I hope u read this, but i know you never will read this. i dun feel good! maybe im thinking too much. but i just feel that, you are just gg out late night without telling me where u go, sending the same sms that i sent u, as though just to revenge.
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Feel bad seeing your facebook post. Ya. You can say that I've forgotten my promise to you of helping you to do the sales analysis. I admit is my fault. hais. Than? I can help you but how can you help me?
Now it's the end of poly life and i have to start to work. Parents start to ask me for allowance & im lost of words cos I totally ran out of money. for whatever that I have done. Is it fucking worth it?
Want to learn drive car and no money too. money money money. I hate money! why must everything works only when there is money!?
fucked up life.
Now it's the end of poly life and i have to start to work. Parents start to ask me for allowance & im lost of words cos I totally ran out of money. for whatever that I have done. Is it fucking worth it?
Want to learn drive car and no money too. money money money. I hate money! why must everything works only when there is money!?
fucked up life.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
no directions in life. feel so empty. all the stress..................
mon. sch plus 2 projects
tues.sch plus project plus study for wed test
wed. sch plus event ppt plus test plus do ppt for thur plus hand in report
thurs. ppt, sch, proj, work
fri. sch, proj, work
sat, work OT
kill me
other ppl stress with studies only. to me , other than studies, i still have to think about work and relationship.... n, i cnt find anione to talk to...wat have my life become?
mon. sch plus 2 projects
tues.sch plus project plus study for wed test
wed. sch plus event ppt plus test plus do ppt for thur plus hand in report
thurs. ppt, sch, proj, work
fri. sch, proj, work
sat, work OT
kill me
other ppl stress with studies only. to me , other than studies, i still have to think about work and relationship.... n, i cnt find anione to talk to...wat have my life become?
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Sunday, January 10, 2010
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